We often times think of the word Forgiveness, as Forgiving Someone else for something that they have done to us, and we don't place the word, with Forgiving Ourselves for things we have done in the past, to Ourselves or Someone Else, that are keeping us from striving and excelling and moving ahead, being all that we can be in our lives.

Forgiving Ourselves, is so very important, in our growth, and for our future, and just "point blank", for our well being, and health.

Forgiving Ourselves:

God wants us to Forgive not only others, but OURSELVES, he is not holding onto our past, and wants us to make the most of our lives here, being happy, and excelling in whats ahead of us for the future. Sometimes, writing down things that we are dwelling on, and what we are unhappy with ourselves for is good, and some people can just simple say, outloud, or to themselves, what it is that is weighing us down, and keeping us angry at ourselves, and what we are holding onto and dwelling on. God does not want us to be carrying these kinds of things around, in our hearts, and minds. Make a new start! Today!

Forgiveness, (OURSELVES and OTHERS) is it important in healing?

YES, It is one of the most important things in healing, and moving forward, and excelling and striving for whats ahead, and not what is behind us.

When we let go of things that are eating away at us, as humans, we begin to see, that there is a light at the end of even the darkest, blackest tunnel, and we do have purpose and will here. Of course you have to be willing to do some soul searching, and praying, and looking up to the Lord, to see just what it is you are to be doing as YOUR will here on earth, but I am sure, each of us has a special job here, and when we take the time to find out what it is we are to be doing, and learn how to live a full and happy life, we are much better, on the inside and out, just altogether, we are a much better person.

Its not going to be easy, and it does not matter, what it is you are carrying around, no matter what it is, it can be let go of, and you can make a wonderful life for yourself in the future and years to come.

I prayed and prayed some more. I asked God for help in healing and in forgiving.

To forgive, myself and others, I first had to allow myself to face the truth head on, meaning the whole truth about whatever it was that was making me stay stuck in one spot, what the thing(s) were that I was dwelling on, that were causing me to be angry and bitter with myself, and all of the emotions that come along with staying in this unhealthy place in my life. If you do not allow the picture to be fully drawn, and you do not allow yourself to open all of the wounds and anger in your heart, you will not do the best that you can, in Forgiving yourself. Let it out, and then let it GO...

We are in no means EVER going to be perfect, and remember, God knows this and he does not expect us to be, so don't expect yourself to be, when we make mistakes they should be a learning expierence, and let go of, not dwelled upon. Why do this to ourselves? This is not what God is doing, and what we as humans should not be doing to ourselves. We are responsible for our actions and words, but when we learn from past mistakes and wrong doings, and prevent ourselves from making the same mistake and wrong doings again, that is a BIG step, and God knows we are making the change to a better person and not repeating the same things again. We all need to grow and thrive, and move ahead, and make the most out of our lives here.

Life is all about happiness and not about being angry or bitter at ourselves or anyone else. We can take a bad situation and make it work out for the best through prayers, love and truths. Always remember:

~ God is not dwelling on our past, and bad things about us, so why should we? ~

~ Dont Say You Can't Forgive Yourself,
Instead Say, I Can And I Will Forgive Myself ~

~ It's Not That We Can't Forgive Ourselves,
It's Allowing and Making Forgiveness To Happen ~

I hope and pray this page will help you, and help you to understand, that it is so Important to not only Forgive someone else, but one of the most Important Issue in this Life on Earth, is to be able to Forgive Yourself. Often times, I think, these 2 areas go hand in hand, Forgive Someone, and Forgive Yourself, Forgiving Someone Else, may work even better, if you have already Forgave Yourself for unpleasant things in your own life. Everyone is different, so you decide what the best way for you is, God will let you know.

This page, was written by me, in hopes that it will help someone, in their life, to Grow, Be Happy and Thrive twords a Well, and most importantly, Wonderful Future, being all that your life can be:)
I tried to keep this simple, and easy to understand. If there is anything you would like to talk about, please email me, and I will be back with you as soon as possible. Thank you.

All my Love, Melissa.